Consent Is Never an Assumption
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Assuming consent because of how someone is dressed, where they are, what they have done before, or how a night has gone so far skips the one step that actually matters, which is asking and genuinely listening to the answer given in return. It reflects genuine care for the other person's comfort and choice.
Assumptions feel convenient because they avoid an awkward moment, but they remove the other person's choice entirely from the situation. A short, clear question replaces guesswork with certainty, and that certainty is worth far more than the brief discomfort of simply asking first. This matters just as much in familiar relationships as new ones.
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