Keeping Friendships Outside the Relationship
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Maintaining friendships outside of a romantic relationship supports a healthier, more balanced sense of self for both people involved over the long term. This is true in relationships of every length and every kind. This is worth practising even when things already feel comfortable between you. This is a habit worth building early and maintaining consistently over time.
Encouraging each other's outside friendships, rather than feeling threatened by them, is a genuine sign of a secure, trusting relationship between two people. This becomes easier the more openly it is practised together. It is worth returning to, especially during busier or harder periods. It reflects the kind of respect that keeps trust genuinely intact.
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