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Talking to Teenagers About Consent

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Photo: 3rd ABCT, 4th ID Iron Ambassador Program (8502105) by U.S. Army 3BCT-4ID by 1st Lt. Kimberly Blair (Public domain), via Openverse

Teenagers are forming their first real relationships and friendships, which makes this a genuinely valuable time to talk openly about consent, without lecturing or making the conversation feel like a warning aimed squarely at them. It reflects genuine care for the other person's comfort and choice. This becomes second nature once it is genuinely understood by both people.

Keeping the conversation ongoing, rather than treating it as a single talk to get through, and being genuinely open to their questions helps teenagers feel comfortable coming back to you when something feels unclear or difficult later on. It is a habit worth building slowly, one honest conversation at a time. This is worth remembering even when a conversation feels awkward at first.

Support is available for both parents and teenagers navigating this together, whenever it is needed. 1800RESPECT is on 1800 737 732, and Kids Helpline is there for young people aged 5 to 25 on 1800 55 1800, any day. You deserve the same care and patience you offer to others. You do not have to work through this entirely on your own.

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