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Bystander skills

Practising What You Might Say in Advance

Library photograph: Col Moore leaves 21st SW with laughs
Photo: Col Moore leaves 21st SW with laughs (5547292) by U.S. Air Force photo by Staff Sgt. Alexandra Longfellow (Public domain), via Openverse

Thinking through a few simple phrases in advance, like asking if everything is okay, can make it far easier to act when a real moment arrives. This becomes easier with a little preparation and practice beforehand. It reflects care for the wider group, not just one person alone. This is a quiet, practical way of contributing to everyone's safety.

Rehearsing these words, even quietly to yourself, removes some of the hesitation that comes from not knowing what to say in an uncomfortable situation. It reflects a genuine willingness to look out for the people around you. It is a genuinely valuable skill, whatever situation it ends up applied to. It matters far more than people often realise in the moment itself.

1800RESPECT is on 1800 737 732, and Lifeline is on 13 11 14, both available any hour for anyone preparing for a difficult conversation. Taking that first step counts for a great deal, however small it feels. It is completely okay to take things one small step at a time. There is no wrong time to ask for a little support.

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